The idea of each person is different, naturally there is the differences in language, also appeared in the catchword of generation gap now.
Parents think that since I gave birth to you, you should complete listen to me, but this is wrong. Although the law, parents are the guardian of children, keep the to the age of 18, but parents also there is no need to impose their feudal ideas to children. Is the so-called parents dont want to let the child to do, children, the more willing to challenge the limit of the parents.
Now children after 00, mostly only children, by the education is the best. So parents dont need to put their own ideas about the childs body, as for the problem of puppy love now, parents repeatedly discouraged, and education, but I want to ask, useful? Is not the best to fight, the way of the cold war ended, not communicate slowly sit down with the kids.
Parents always think that they have no wrong, he is high above the, beat and scold the child is normal, because there used to be a famous saying the stern father son, but I want to say, that was the last time, please dont compared with modern, you should keep up with the trend of The Times, we know you is good for us, but in a different way, the result is different also. Now the children are in the rebellious period, temper is normal, but their parents think children back to the unfilial, is bound to cause a family war.
Child achievement good, delicious good drink honours, record down, is not let into the house, you only see the childs grades, but not children how hard. Dont they saw scores and sad? More for your child to think it over.
I just hope that parents understand the children, to narrow the generation gap.
代沟 如今，父母和子女之间经常缺乏沟通。子女经常抱怨父母过时了;而父母并不赞同子女的言行。于是一个很大的代沟就产生了。 产生代沟的原因有很多。子女期望过比父母允许的更独立的生活:自由的选取自我的朋友;在学校里自由的选取自我的社团;自由的描绘自我的将来;自由的支配自我的花费。当然年轻的子女们也期望能够得到父母的理解。但是并不是大多数的父母都能够理解他们的孩子，他们认为教育他们的后代树立传统的信仰是他们应有的职责，他们期望子女在家里能够孝顺，在学校能够好好学*。于是，不理解就往往从父母打算干涉子女的日常生活中产生了。
Nowadays， there is often a lack of understanding between parents and children。 Children always plain that their parents are out of date， while parents can’t approve of what their children say and do。 Thus， a big generation gap is formed。
The gap remains wide for many reasons。 Children want to be free to choose their own friends， select their own classes in school， plan their own future， earn and spend their own money， and generally run their own life in a more independent way than many parents allow。 Also， young children wish to be understood by their parents， but most parents don’t quite understand their children。 They regard it as their responsibility to teach their offspring traditional beliefs。 They want them to be obedient and do well in school。 Therefore， misunderstanding often arise from parent tendency to interfere in children’s daily activities。
In my opinion， most problems between parents and children could be solved by joint efforts of both sides to enhance mutual understanding。3
Generation gap refers to the misunderstanding between the old and young。 The term came into fashion after the 1980s。 However， in recent years， the phenomenon is getting more and more fierce。
How does generation gap e into being? The first reason is that the two generations have grown up in different ages， thus they have different attitudes toward life。 Secondly， due to having little in mon with each other， they are unwilling to sit down and talk face to face。 Besides， as modern life is so stressful， both of them are so busy with their study or work that they have not enough time to exchange their ideas。
To bridge the generation gap is not easy at all， but we can do something to shorten it。 For one thing， children should respect their parents as well as accept their good advice。 For another， parents should not only show their love and care to the kids， but also support their good life view。 As long as the old and young can understand each other， it would be more harmonious in family and world。